Where is Your Church?

When do you connect to the Central Sun/God/Source of all that is?

God is everywhere. In all things. In you, in those you love, and in those you would run from. We all come from the same Source, just like the Pleateans, the Sirians, the Lemurians, or the Arcturians… There is no separation because all of them are within us. They walk the planet with us, and within us. They share our DNA.

While I was walking to get a coffee this morning, I looked at each human on the way and saw Source within them. I was brought to tears. I was proud of them. I was proud of me. And I knew without a doubt that I was seeing through the eyes of Source. They are beautiful. The woman scolding her child was beautiful. The child following his bliss and crawling to the waves was beautiful. He knew he could do it. His mother was scared. I knew she could let him go and he would learn his limitations quickly and without danger. It was a perfect moment for a lesson that she wasn’t ready to let him have. And all of it was beautiful.

And as I sit with this gorgeous view of the ocean, I see the bodies of all shapes and sizes telling their stories. I see the confidence of an older man who has lived a glorious life. I can feel it as he walks by. I see the tired old man who walks cautiously to the water, unaware of the greatness within him. I see the self-conscious woman continuously readjusting her bathing suit. I see them all through the eyes of Source. What a beautiful sight.

And yet, there is no church above my head. There is no filter I must confess to who will talk to God on my behalf. It’s just me, at the beach, in full experience of the Divine within. In the past few weeks I have tossed aside my fears and fully grasped who I really am. I am unafraid that people will think I’m crazy or too “out-there”. I am ready to speak my truth, knowing that I will give others who are in a similar place on their journey the courage to do the same. My heart is glowing. My hands are vibrating in excitement, ecstatic to play their role in my spiritual coming out. They would cry tears of joy if they could.

I can feel the excitement of the non-physical beings that support me. My group of writers, my crystalline friends. It’s the prefect time and I’m in the perfect place, physically, spiritually, and mentally. When fear arises, a deep breath and the intention to fully connect is all that I need to ground me in my knowing once again. I feel the love of a God who knows me by name. Even though there are billions of beings, he knows my personal life path; my innate consciousness, and fully supports me in my unfolding.

So you see, I don’t need a church or a place of worship because I am the place. I take God with me everywhere I go. Our cells crave this connection, and when we’re feeling off, unwell, tired for no reason, sad, alone, scared, or fearful, etc, all we need is to take a moment to centre ourselves; a moment to breathe, to connect, to meditate. Some of you will need absolute quiet. Some of you will need to set a timer and breathe with the intention to open your heart and feel for your higher self. Those of you who resonate with everything I am saying will be able to sense when you have lost your connection to Source immediately, and you will simply hook back into the grid with a single intention; a single breath.

The energy on the Earth plane is greater than ever. Light Workers are answering the call to increase their vibration in greater numbers than ever before. Those of us who are already awakened are waking up some more. We are being guided to new truths. We are taking down our walls and we are incorporating new information quickly. The more you focus on raising your vibration, the quicker this will happen.

The answers are not outside of you. They come from within. Everything you need is already within you. It is in your heart. It is in your connection to the Divine. Meditate every day to raise your vibration, and then practice maintaining it in each moment of the day. When you feel your vibration drop, raise it again. Do whatever you need to do to keep your vibration high. Go for a run. Walk in nature. Make any childcare arrangements you need to make so that you have time throughout the day to yourself, to be alone in your energy. Go into a separate room to meditate if you can. Put your child’s favourite television show on and mediate beside them if you need to. Do whatever it takes.

You are always connected to God and all that is. It can never be otherwise. But you have the freewill to deny this connection and flow with the lower energy that is always around you as well. All energies are always floating around. All timelines are available to you. It is your vibration that allows your God connection and therefore your experience of any given timeline. For instance, if you continuously hold a low vibration, you will notice low vibrational events. You will complain a lot and you will play the victim card. Alternatively, if you are vibrating high, you will notice the blessings, the gifts, the perfections within each moment. The same event can happen and the low vibrating human will see the tragedy and believe that terrible things are happening to them. The high vibrating individual will see the blessings, the lessons, and the love and know that everything is working out in perfect order. They will know that whatever happens, happens for them.

As you learn from your environment and the information available, you will learn many new things that are incredibly valuable to your path, but it is within that the true answers lie. You will hear something new, and your heart will tell you whether to accept the knowledge or not. You have an innate knowing within you. And if contrast arises between something that is presented to you and the feeling in your heart, listen to your heart.

Your connection to God doesn’t need to be compartmentalized. I will take whatever connection I can get whenever I can get it. Close your eyes at the dinner table when your kids are going crazy. Go within for a few seconds and connect to your higher self. You can meditate and connect to God 24/7. You can maintain your deep connection at all times. Sometimes your energy will be very low and that’s ok. Start where you are and rise. When you feel the lower vibrations, it’s a red flag to raise. There is nothing quite like the Earth experience. It is loaded with contrast that reminds you to “rise above it”. The more you do it, the easier it will get. The goal is to obtain the highest vibration you can hold in each moment.

When you are vibrating high, you will change your life. You will jump timelines. You will change what you experience and what you see in each and every moment, and all you have to do is start with the intention to do so.

I like to close my eyes and feel the energy in my heart glowing. I like to reach for the highest feeling of love that I can feel, and see my heart energy grow larger and larger until it encompasses the entire plane. I like to put my feet on the ground and feel the crystalline energy of Gaia rise up through the chakras in my feet. I like to feel the chakras in my hands vibrating with love as well. I like to picture the energy of love and light rising through my feet straight through the pillar of chakras in my spine, and out through my head, connecting to my higher self and all that is, straight to God consciousness, unconditional love, and infinite possibility. Once I have reached this state of knowing my worth and oneness with the divine, I like to breathe it all in. At this point, my entire body is vibrating as my cells breathe in this high vibrational gift. I see my entire body full of this beautiful light and radiate it out through my heart chakra to all that need it.

A higher level of consciousness is just waiting for us to allow it to flow through us. Hardly any of us know our true power. You have no idea what is available to you if you would just ask to receive your innate gifts. If you are reading this, you are a part of the change that is occurring on this planet.

Be in the moment. Be aware of the way you feel. Do the work. Ask the questions. Feel for the answers, and follow your bliss <3

-A.

How Do I Enjoy My Own Positivity Without Getting Weighed Down By My Parter’s Negativity?

You actually started answering your own question within the rest of your question! Appreciation will get you a long way with respect to this issue. Appreciate the good father that he is. Appreciate the great man he is and the wonderful things he does. When he is stressing and worrying, gently point out the other side of the coin, yet know when it’s time to understand and not explain anything at all. A lot of couples get caught up in thoughts about what they don’t like about their spouses, and nothing good will ever come of that. You’ve got to appreciate what you love about them and find some lighthearted joy along the way, tending to your own vibration as need be. Daydream about what your perfect relationship looks like and ignore the rest.

It is ok to let yourself be happy while someone right next to you is freaking out. A lot of the time we dim our light because we think it will make someone else feel better, but all it does is make us feel terrible and doesn’t help the situation at all anyway. When someone close to you is disconnected from who they really are, stop paying attention to their current behaviour. Instead, go inward and make the connection to your inner being. Feel what your inner being is feeling and follow the guidance you receive. You will either know what to say or know what to do in that moment. Just follow your intuition whether it makes sense to you or not!

You probably have learned to do this already with your kids! You ignore their tantrums and hold the space for them to return to the angelic beings you know they really are. Do the same thing with your husband. If you let him go on and on complaining about something, you’re enabling this behaviour and it will continue. When you find the connection to your inner being, you are connected to the Source of your guidance. If you need a moment to yourself, take it. At least you can explain the reason you are pulling away; you can have an intelligent conversation with your partner that you are usually unable to have with your kids!

My partner and I agree to call each other out on our bullshit.  It doesn’t mean it’s always well received, but we agree to it and we learn from it.  You can also energetically move the energy around any issue by thinking better feeling thoughts with regard to them such as “I love when my partner tells me about the good parts of his day. I love hearing about all of the things that excite him. I love knowing that no matter how bad his day is, he brings the best of himself home to his family. I love how he can make me laugh, etc.” In time you will get better and better with regard to controlling your thoughts.

If you can control your thoughts with respect to your partner for even the smallest amount of time, you will see change. Do your best to tailor your thoughts to something that is already true for you or else it’s not going to help you because you will know deep down it is a lie. Fake it until you make it just doesn’t work for me. Being true to my heart always does.

Use Distance as a Tool

Put some distance between you and him whenever you feel the need. Your intuition will let you know because you’ll have this nagging pit in your stomach that tells you to remove yourself from an uncomfortable situation. Listen to this feeling and let yourself go!

Meditate, take a shower or bath, or go for a run. Listen to your favourite song really, really loud and dance around the kitchen with headphones on. I can’t tell you how many times going for a run has saved my sanity. Run/walk, whatever. Get some fresh air and clear your mind. It’s as easy as saying “Honey, do you mind if I go for a run?” Done. Answers come to me so easily while I am running. I will know what to say to my partner about a certain issue, or I will know how to deal with a certain issue with my kids, or I’ll get the idea to do something I’d never even considered before which solves a problem I didn’t know I even had. It’s incredible what guidance comes when you make t a priority to listen!

Lead By Example.

In time, your partner will see how calm you are and may start doing the same. He would benefit from a hobby he loves that feeds his spirit. I use the example of running because it’s what I love to do to clear my mind. If he can find something that clears his mind, it will do him (and you) a world of good. Because, if you aren’t doing something to bring yourself into alignment with who you really are, you’re grasping at straws and won’t have anything to give anyone else anyway. When you’re not in alignment, worry, fear, and anxiety easily take hold. When you’re in alignment, worry, fear, and anxiety don’t even exist. Love always prevails in the state of alignment.

There is no need to think about your problems when you run/exercise. Just clear your head and listen for your guidance. Your guides know more about you than you do. They also know the shortcut to everything you have ever asked for. I’m not entirely sure we need to think about anything ever again. Just ask to find solutions and listen for the answers to come. Expect them to come.

When you wake up in the morning, before you mentally jump into your to-do list, just lay there and listen for the answers to come. If you are working on your receptivity to your guidance, the fuzzy area between the awake and sleep states is a great time to allow this clarity to wash over you.

Perception is Tricky

We often create problems in our own minds that have no basis in reality. Communication is the key. Have a problem in your relationship? Talk about it. It doesn’t matter if it’s big or small. If it’s dragging you down, it’s worth getting it out in the open. When issues have roots, you’ve got to address them. Just find your alignment and then raise the issue with your partner when you are in a good feeling place about it.

I know a lot of spiritual teachers will tell you to stop looking at a problem and focus on the solution, which is valid for sure, but sometimes you just can’t get your mind off something and not talking about it ends up hurting the relationship. I have had much quicker success in my own life by addressing my issues with honesty and the knowing I have in my heart. It has made my parter and I closer than I ever thought possible.

Go with your own personal guidance in this area. No matter what anyone says, its always best to go with your intuition. What’s best for me may not me best for you. Some issues I can ignore and they work themselves out, while others just keep coming back around. If they keep coming back, it may be time to talk about them.

Permission to Thrive

You need to give yourself permission to thrive no matter what. If it means your partner stays where he is and you outgrow him, so be it. You have to follow your truth and you can’t expect everyone to come with you. I don’t think we are meant to have the same partner for life. I think the right partners come in at the right time. It doesn’t mean that you can’t have the same partner for life, but it means that you have to accept that you will have periods of exponential growth that occur at different times. A friend told me that the trick to staying together long-term is “we never fell out of love with each other at the same time.”

Connect to your inner being. Follow your heart. Speak your truth. Take care of yourself. Know that everything is always working out for you. And look for the evidence of it all day, every day.

xo Amy

 

Q&A: How Do I Stop Feeling Like I Can Never Catch Up?

Busyness is an epidemic in our society. Everyone is so busy doing that they’re missing the point of being in the moment. The key to taking control of your crazy life, just like anything else, lies in your heart.

Wherever you are, you can get to where you want to be. It helps if you have a specific goal in mind but it’s not necessary. Simply knowing what you want to feel is good enough. For instance, you may know that you want to be a painter, so you paint when you feel the inspiration. If you don’t have “time” – make time. Schedule it in. If you don’t know what is it you are looking for, you can appreciate the feeling of how you want to feel. For instance, you can feel what it wold feel like to have unlimited time, ease, love, connection, and excitement.

All of this is going to come together via the Law of Attraction. Like attracts like. The vibration you put out is the one you receive. Things are always in a state of change. Nothing ever stays the same. But, you may not notice the change because things are changing to more of the same and more of the same and more of the same.

“Work is hard.” “I hate my job” “I never have enough time” etc. are thoughts that are going to change to more and more of the same. If you can practice feeling appreciation and joy in your daily experience, it will raise your vibration enough so that as time passes, you will see palpable change. Happier people will enter into your experience. There will be more laughing and more spontaneity. In general, you will feel more excitement in your life.

Over time, you will begin to notice how your thoughts create your reality. And in greater time, you will see just how powerful of a co-creator you really are. Eventually you will come to know that you can be, do, or have anything you desire because your life experience will show you time and time again that you get what you think about whether you want it or not.

The easiest way to get the momentum rolling in the right direction is to take time every single morning to make sure you get out of bed with the right mindset. If you wake up with a  debilitating thought, take the time to think of a better feeling thought on that subject, or choose another subject all together. I recommend leaving your thoughts on any subject in a better feeling place because it is incredibly empowering to know that you are in charge of your thoughts and that they are not in charge of you. Plus, it feels better!

Tips for improving your current job:

  1. Set the intention when you go to bed to wake up in a good mood, full of energy and enthusiasm for your job in the morning. Intention is everything. Most people pre-pave their days full of dislike for their jobs. This is your chance to choose your own adventure the day before.
  2. If you wake up in dread with the thought of going to work, wake up 45 minutes earlier and go for a quick run. Movement of the body is important to move energy, so if you can swing it, get yourself moving!
  3. If working out sounds impossible, (I can literally hear you groaning) choose any thought about your job that you really like. Appreciate how good that thought feels and appreciate the people who make your job fun.
  4. Meditate. Set your alarm for 15-20 minutes and sit with the intention to simply be. Breathe deeply and feel for the love that is omnipresent. Focus on your heart chakra and let in the love.
  5. Appreciate all day long. Especially when you notice negative thoughts. Even people you have always perceived as completely awful will change right before your eyes if you only see the good in them and find things to appreciate. And when a compliment for someone pops into your head, share it! You are an uplifter at heart!

And last but not least, take time for yourself. Put yourself first. It’s not selfish to do what you want to do. It’s IMPERATIVE to being happy. Take care of yourself and do what makes you happy. If you don’t do this, you won’t have any energy to give anyone else anyway. This means saying NO to a lot of thing you are currently saying YES to and regretting. If it’s not a HELL YES it’s a HELL NO. Remember this one thing alone and I guarantee you will catch up and feel an immediate increase of joy in your daily life!

The happier you are, the more tapped into your spirit you will be, and the easier it will be for you to hear the inspiring thoughts your spirit is constantly sharing with you. This is why meditation is so important. It is an open invitation to spirit. When you quiet your mind, you are better able to hear your guidance. Spiritual guidance is not reserved for psychics and mediums. If you are a human on Earth, you have spiritual guidance because the “spirit you” thought the “physical you” into being. And that same energy that created you is flowing through you now, creating with your thoughts and your overall vibration. The frequency you emit is what the law of attraction responds to in each and every waking moment.

Pay attention to that little voice in your head. Most thoughts that feel really, really good to you are actually guidance from spirit. Spirit knows exactly what you want and how to get it to you in the easiest of ways, but often we ignore these amazing thoughts and counter them with thoughts like “I can’t do that”. Yes, you can. If you received and inspiring thought, you can do it. Think about it some more and get really excited about it. You can be, do, or have anything you desire. All you have to do is align with your spirit on a daily basis and let it all in. You don’t even need to think anymore. You just have to be happy and let the law of attraction and spirit show you the way!

How can I release the grief from life’s losses that I am holding in my body?

We are Eternal beings, and death is one of the great misunderstandings of man. Since no one ever really dies, the only thing holding you in this place of grief are your thoughts/beliefs about death. Your loved ones who have transitioned have released all resistance they had while they were Earth bound. This means that any petty grievances and beliefs disappeared the moment their soul left their physical body. All that remains is pure love, which is the only thing that was ever real to begin with.

Once you stop looking for your loved ones where they were (their physical bodies) and start looking for them where they are (the non-physical “realm” right where you are) you will be able to tap into the essence of them and let all of the love they have for you come rushing in. Any time you are thinking of them, rest assured that they are with you. When a smell reminds  you of them, it is because you heard their call from non-physical! The more you can open up and play with them, the more you will notice them around you, and the more fun you will continue to have!

I play with my Gram often. She visited me while on the cruise ship last week and we had a conversation about how absolutely amazing it is that I have found this tribe of people that I love and appreciate so much! She was far from these beliefs when she was alive and I can feel her excitement for the things I know at such a young age. I then asked who else was coming to say hello and my 8th grade teacher came forward. It’s not normal of me to think of my 8th grade teacher, and that’s why it was so easy for me to trust and know he was near. He and I had an amazing connection from the time we met, and after he passed away he came to me in a dream. When these things happen, trust it. Trust in what comes to you. You’re not making it up. It’s all real.

I can tell that you are ready to let go of all you have been holding on to. You’ve got this. Trust. This is where intention comes in. Set the intention to accept the situation for what it is. Everything is exactly as it is supposed to be. Accept that although you no longer have a physical relationship with this person, your relationship is far from over. Actually, I find my relationships deepen when loved ones pass because they stop pushing against me and only their love remains. All other perspectives fall away and they become pure positive energy. This makes it very easy to tap into them when you’re vibrationally near their current state.

The easiest way for me to open my heart has been to sit quietly in meditation with the intention to feel for the love that is shining down on me. Focus on your heart chakra and grow the energy outward. Breathe slowly and deeply, letting go of physical and mental resistance with each breathe. Feel your body soften. Feel your mind let go. Invite a feeling of ease and freedom.

As soon as you forgive yourself for whatever transpired before they passed, and start to let yourself be truly happy, everything you have perpetuated through unkind thoughts toward yourself will shift. When you use the present moment to think unkind thoughts about a past version of you, you’re not letting the whole of who you currently are flow through. You’re blocking a lot of really good stuff from coming in, and that’s why it feels so bad.

The non-physical you knows who you really are and loves you unconditionally. When you think a thought that is in opposition to this universal truth, you’re going to feel bad. You simply can not think a thought that is in opposition to what your inner being knows and feel good about it. So when you catch yourself in a thought that feels terrible, ask yourself what your inner being must be thinking!

Tell your inner being that you are open to their perspective. Be open to the thoughts that pop into your head. If you’re having trouble with this, distraction helps. Go do something fun! Do anything that brings some joy to your heart. Go for a run, walk, grab a cup of coffee with a (happy) friend, read a book, watch a movie, or listen to Despacito and dance around your kitchen like no one’s watching!

I am so excited for you to open up more completely to the world of spirit because I know what a fulfilling relationship awaits you and it’s always only a thought away <3